Has The Burden of Dealing With Your Relationship Shattered your Expectations?
When love is fresh and new, we find ourselves very giddy with hope and promise, but as the days turn to months, and the months turn to years together those hopes can become shattered almost to the point of no repair. The one thing you have going for you is that you still love your partner. You love them very much and do not want to let them go.
Take those shattered dreams and build them a mausoleum. You don’t need them anymore. What you need now is new dreams. New hopes. You need to define realistically what your marriage can look like if you work at it. It is important to write these down. I always go back to making a list, but don’t just make a “shelf list”…one that collects dust on a shelf…but an active, doable list.
Once you have a new list of hopes and dreams for your relationship, do you know what you are going to do? You are going to post it on the refridgerator. That’s right, you heard me. Get it posted out there. Get out the tape if you have a stainless steel fridge because it is vital the list is out in the open for everyone to see, even the guests that pop in, or the high school friends of your kids, or your family, and most importantly even your spouse!
This is proof positive that you are working on your relationship, and every time you head to the fridge to get something to eat, you are going to see that list. Now get busy. it is time to shed your burdens, stop facing the wall of destruction, and steer toward your future.
“When it seems that someone has shattered your dreams….pick up even the smallest of pieces and use them to build bigger and better dreams.” Anonymous
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